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Plus Size Vintage Wedding Dresses: How to Shop by Era and Get the Fit

The easiest way to get a plus size vintage wedding dress is to buy vintage-inspired and made to measure, because true vintage gowns were cut much smaller than what we wear today. Pick your era first, then pick a maker who sews to your measurements. That is the whole game.

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I have been hunting plus size bridal fashion since 2011, and vintage is the look that never leaves. Tea length skirts. Lace sleeves. A waist that says hello. Sis, every one of those works on a curvy body. You just have to know where to look and what to ask for.

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True vintage or vintage-inspired: which one should you buy?

True vintage means the dress was made in the era. It is one of a kind, and it is the hardest route in extended sizes. Bridal dealer Jane Bourvis told Country and Town House that the measurements on older gowns were historically much smaller. Gaya Guiragossian of Vestiaire Collective says the same thing in plainer words: vintage sizing does not match modern sizing.

 

Vintage-inspired means a new dress cut in an old silhouette. This is where plus size brides win. You get the 1950s skirt or the Victorian collar, in your size, in fresh fabric, with a maker you can email.

My honest take? If you find a true vintage gown that fits, grab it. If you do not, stop scrolling and go made to measure. You are not settling. You are getting the look without the stress.

Plus size vintage wedding dresses by era

Every decade has a shape. Find the one that sounds like you, then search that exact phrase.

1920s: beaded and easy

Think dropped waist, loose straight lines, beading and soft fringe. Kleinfeld describes the 1920s look as fluid and skimming, not clinging. If you hate anything tight at the waist, this is your decade.

1930s: satin and glamour

Floor length, close to the body, in silk, satin or rayon, often with a puffed sleeve. Old Hollywood on your wedding day. Look for a maker who will add a little stretch or a corset back so the fit is forgiving.

1940s: tailored and modest

Clean seams, modest necklines and a tailored, hourglass line. This one photographs beautifully at a courthouse or a small ceremony.

1950s: tea length, retro and rockabilly

The big one. A fitted bodice, a nipped waist and a full skirt that ends at the calf. Lulus lists sweetheart necklines, long lace sleeves and tea length or ballerina hems as the signatures of the decade. Add a petticoat and a bold lip and you have rockabilly.

Plus size bride in a 1950s rockabilly tea length wedding dress with a petticoat
1950s rockabilly wrap dress with petticoat. Etsy shop: localovespirate
Plus size retro tea length wedding dress with a full skirt
Retro style tea length wedding dress. Etsy shop: bridalblissdesigns
Vintage inspired tea length wedding dress on a curvy bride
Vintage inspired tea length wedding dress. Etsy shop: bridalblissdesigns

1960s: sleek and short

A slim A-line, a bateau neckline, long sleeves and covered buttons. Hemlines came up. Perfect if you want vintage without the volume.

1970s: boho and flowing

Flowing sleeves, airy chiffon, soft lace and a relaxed fit. If comfort is the top of your list, start here.

Victorian and turn of the century: high necks and drama

High necklines, detailed collars, big sleeves and a worked bodice. A corseted jacket over a full skirt gives you the look and lets you adjust the fit through the day.

Plus size Victorian wedding dress with a corseted jacket
Plus size Victorian wedding dress with corseted jacket. Etsy shop: KMKDesignsllc
Back view of a plus size Victorian style wedding gown with corset lacing
Plus size Victorian wedding dress with corseted jacket. Etsy shop: KMKDesignsllc

Where to shop for a plus size vintage wedding dress

Three places to start. Search your era plus your size, then shop by measurements.

  • Etsy. Best for made to measure. Seamstresses there sew retro, tea length and Victorian styles to your exact numbers. Ask if they have made your size before and ask to see it.
  • Amazon. Best for vintage-inspired dresses on a short timeline. Read the size chart on each listing and check the return window before you order.
  • eBay. Best for true vintage. Be patient, ask the seller for bust, waist and hip measurements, and never trust the number on the tag.

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Still deciding on an era? Save ideas from my vintage wedding board on Pinterest before you shop.

How vintage sizing really works

Ignore the tag. Guiragossian gives this example: a 1960s UK size 12 is roughly a modern UK 8. That is two sizes of difference from the label alone.

Get these numbers before you shop:

  • Bust, waist and hips
  • Neck to waist length
  • Full front and back length
  • Around the upper arm, if the dress has fitted sleeves

Then compare your numbers to the dress, not to a size chart from a different brand. Between sizes? Size up. Guiragossian says it is much easier for a tailor to take a dress in than to let it out.

What to check before you buy true vintage

  • Seams, underarms, neckline and closures. This is where old dresses tear and discolor.
  • Underarm marks. Bourvis warns that old perspiration marks are nearly impossible to remove.
  • Cleaning. Do not toss it in a wash. Bourvis says cleaning can cause problems fast, and very old fabric can fall apart.
  • Photos. Buying online? Ask the seller to list every flaw.

Alterations for curvy brides

Book a tailor who has worked on vintage before. Bourvis says alterations usually take a couple of weeks, and longer if the tailor has to match fabric to add room. Ask about a corset back, added side panels or a matching jacket. Those are the usual ways to add room to a vintage shape.

Build your look from the inside out too. The right foundation changes how a fitted bodice sits. Start with our plus size bridal lingerie picks, and if you want to try gowns on in person, read about a plus size bridal salon made for curvy brides.

Plus size vintage wedding dress questions

Can I find a true vintage wedding dress in a plus size?

Yes, but it takes patience. Older gowns were cut much smaller, so shop by measurements and be ready to have the dress altered.

What vintage style is most flattering for plus size brides?

The one you feel good in. If you want a place to start, try the 1950s tea length shape: fitted on top, full skirt, easy to move in.

Are tea length wedding dresses vintage?

Tea length is the hemline most tied to the 1950s. A new tea length dress is vintage-inspired. One made in the 1950s is true vintage.

How far ahead should I order a made to measure dress?

Ask the maker for their timeline in writing before you pay, then add time for a fitting and alterations on your end.

EveryBODY deserves the dress she has been picturing. Pick your decade and go get it.

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Shafonne Myers is a certified wedding and event planner who longed for bridal inspiration that looked like her. She has created a website and magazine that brings bridal inspiration to plus size brides. She does speaking engagements educating the world about plus size brides and self confidence.