I meet tons of brides that get discouraged once they realize that something is not going the way they want or isn’t going to work out the exact way they want it. I tell them, “It is what it is”. Iknow it’s hard to grasp or understand why something happens the way it does but the sooner that you can realize this and move on then you can be on to the next thing that needs to be dealt with. I feel so bad for people that waste time concentrating on something that they can’t change or alter and the time that they were wasting on that they ended up lossing out on the next thing, so just tell yourself “It is what it is” and keep it moving.
Happy Planning,
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Shafonne Myers is a certified wedding and event planner who longed for bridal inspiration that looked like her. She has created a website and magazine that brings bridal inspiration to plus size brides. She does speaking engagements educating the world about plus size brides and self confidence.
