PLANNING | Wedding Photographers Know The Signs A Marriage Won’t Last

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Wedding Photographer Marrakech gets the chance to watch numerous couples on the big day. They document the entire event and get access to intimate moments between two persons who just made a big commitment. The photographer may be in the best position to prognosticate the idea will it be ‘till death do us part’ or ‘until the passion flames out.’

The people on Reddit figured photographers could tell if a marriage will last — and how do they know. Not just photographers chimed in, but other people in the wedding wars who are also privy to how a couple behaves, as well.

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While someone’s relationship can always be judged accurately based on a single day, some of the Redditors didn’t claim to be experts, but admit speculation is interesting.

How Does The Couple Act During The Photoshoot?

Photographers look specifically for moments of contact, intimacy and emotional connection. Things become evident when those things are there — and when they’re missing.

Cake Cutting

What happens during the ritual cake cutting can speak volumes. Tenderly feeding each other? That’s a good sign. Even a playful smear of icing isn’t a problem. Sometimes one of the parties will retaliate, and that’s a bad sign. Many observers feel shoving food in the face of their space is indicative of contempt which may doom the wedded bliss.

Speeches

What the speech giver says at the reception is a giveaway. Do they claim this person will enrich the life of their new spouse? Any anecdotes about how each complements the other? Or is it a quick and perfunctory “happy for them.” If the Bride or Groom don’t mention the other person, it’s not good and can remind observers of those times a director wins the Oscar and doesn’t acknowledge the leading actress.

What Is The Lead Up Like?

Listening to the language the couple uses in engagement shoots will make it clear where the focus is. Many have a clear image in mind of the wedding, but they’ve haven’t put as much thought into planning a marriage. The difference which can be seen between a young couple and older is significant.

Wedding Party Behavior

Noticing how the wedding party acts can be revealing. The body language, the interaction, the parents’ glancing around — the toasts. Each of these can be telling about their belief that the marriage is a good idea.

It’s The Wedding, Stupid

Some brides are more in love with the idea of a wedding than they are with the person they are marrying. Weddings where the dresses, jewelry, and everything is over the top is bad. It’s made worse when all these things happen, and the bride and groom don’t interact.

The Engagement Shoot May Reveal More

The engagement shoot is usually less formal and is an opportunity for the photographer to get to know the couple. With that said, there are some engaged couples the Wedding Photographer Marrakech would have bet the duo didn’t make it to the chapel.

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Shafonne Myers is a certified wedding and event planner who longed for bridal inspiration that looked like her. She has created a website and magazine that brings bridal inspiration to plus size brides. She does speaking engagements educating the world about plus size brides and self confidence.
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About Shafonne Myers {Editor-in-Chief}

Shafonne Myers is a certified wedding and event planner who longed for bridal inspiration that looked like her. She has created a website and magazine that brings bridal inspiration to plus size brides. She does speaking engagements educating the world about plus size brides and self confidence.