PLANNING | The Key To A Happy Marriage? A Successful Career

Why do so many marriages break down? If you look at the data, you can find all sorts of reasons, but right at the top of the list are financial problems. In today’s economy, it’s hard, even for two working people, to get ahead. And over time, this can take its toll on the relationship. Money becomes an endless source of concern, causing arguments about where it should be spent and whether the family can afford the next holiday.

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REAL WEDDING | Magical Wedding in the Woods | Damien Furey Photography

But things don’t have to be this way. There are ways of having a successful career – one that provides both money and time – that will allow you to focus on the things that matter to you. Here’s how to combine both a happy marriage with a career you love.

Start Training Early

There’s never a perfect time to embark on a career: children, finances, and side projects will always conspire to get in the way. But there are huge benefits from starting early, no matter what it is that you want to do, whether that’s an online masters in clinical mental health counseling or a professional qualification in cybersecurity. Beginning now, while you’re young and have the energy, is more valuable to your long-term well-being than starting in ten years time when you have more responsibility and fewer options.

Make Career Advancement A Shared Project

Many people like to think that their careers and their marriages are two separate entities. But that’s naive thinking: they’re both highly interrelated, and one affects the other. Just think about how your stressful job affects your spouse, or how your arguments at home spill over into your work life.

As a working married person, it should be your goal to create as much harmony as possible in your life. One of the best ways to do this is to make your career development a shared project with your partner – something that you work on together for the benefit of both of you. You don’t want your spouse to feel resentment about your working late or having to give up your weekends. Bringing them on board and making them feel a part of the process can help enormously.

Create A Golden Rule On Family Time, And Stick To It

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ENGAGEMENT | Elegant Nautical Engagement Session in The Bahamas | Lyndah Wells Photography

Modern life can be hectic, and sometimes you miss appointments. But your family – for many of you – is your reason for being. It’s why you’re working so hard in the first place.

It makes no sense to spend all week working, only to discover that you don’t have time to enjoy the money you’ve earned with the people you love. So make sure that you set aside some precious time for your loved one, even if it’s just an afternoon at the weekend. Having that time set aside lets them know that they are valuable to you, and can avoid feelings of inadequacy and depression.

Remember, family time is sacred. There should be no phones bleeping, no emails, and strictly nothing going on related to work. It’s about you and the other person.

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